Matthew Gruchow
Possible Sex Addict Should Seek Help
Editor’s note: This column may contain subject matter of a graphic or sexual nature. Dear Matt, Is it really possible for me to become addicted to sex? And if so, what can I do about it? – Lusty.
Bed-Jumping Not Good Solution for Heartbreak, Columnist Says
Editor’s note: This column may contain subject matter of a graphic or sexual nature. Dear Matthew, My boyfriend and I broke up after nearly two years together. I’ve cried to my friends about it and they seem to think having sex with someone right away will help me get over him faster.
Valentine’s Day Haters, Take Hope in New Love
“How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach …” – Elizabeth Browning.
“Down Under” Tips Shared
Dear Matthew, Any advice on how to better oral sex? I’m looking for instruction but would rather not go by what I hear in the locker room. – Going Below Dear Going Below, Instead of giving you a step by step play book for oral sex, (read: get expelled) I’ve decided to offer some broad tips and places to go for instructional material.
Student tells a story of fighting mental illness
The women I’ve loved have been like the tides of the ocean; moving in and out under the wane of a force I neither control nor understand.
Campuses work to help those with mental illness
A trio of recent suicides at New York University has brought the rise of mental illness among college students to the forefront of discussion at many universities including SDSU. Also being discussed at many universities is the struggle to deal with this growing caseload.
Rape victim can love again
Dear Matthew, I was a rape victim. Now, after being with my boyfriend for about two years, I realize that I am unable to open up to him sexually. I feel like when we make love I float to someplace else. I love him; it’s not a problem with him, it’s me. Any help? -Afloat Dear Afloat, When I began this column the mission was to entertain and inform.
University wants new chemical lab
In the future South Dakota State University hopes to play a larger role in diagnosing and fighting potential bio-chemical threats and disease outbreaks by building a more sophisticated lab on campus.
Hobo Sex: Hazardous to Health
It’s nearing 2 a.m. as I write this. I’ve been up for nearly 24 hours and have worked my way through a bottle of my favorite wine. The fear of mental collapse from exhaustion is very real now. My brain is anchored to reality only by the loosest of moorings.
Tips to Uncover Cheatin’ Hearts
Dear Matthew, I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for almost two years and want to marry her. However, lately I’ve begun to think she’s cheating on me. Is there anyway to tell for sure? –In Doubt Dear In Doubt, This is a tough one. It’s not only tough because I’m unfamiliar with your relationship, but also because women are much more savvy at the cheating game than men.
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